Learning how to pick up girls on Facebook can be a little… hmmm, frustrating. That is, until now.
The thing is with Facebook is that women aren’t expecting to get picked up. Facebook is, after all, designed mostly to keep in touch with relatives, friends, etc.
Well, you’re in for a huge surprise if you think of it that way. The way you pick up a girl on a website like Facebook or MySpace is vastly different. You’ve got to approach in such a way that it seems less threatening.
The moment a girl is going to think she’s getting picked up, she’s going to bolt (that is, unless you know her in real life).
Now, there are several ways in which you can pick up girls on Facebook…
1.) The Easiest Way…
I told you Facebook isn’t an online dating website. It isn’t. However, there applications that allow to transform your Facebook profile into an online dating hub. The top 4 online dating applications are…
What do I recommend? Zoosk seems to have a huge user base, and, after all, you want to be connected to as many people as possible.
If you’re worried about your friends knowing you’re trying to game chicks online, then no worries. There’s a way around this. When you add the application, you can hide it from the rest of your Facebook list so only you can see this application.
If you’re single, this is a win-win situation!
Once you add this application, then you can approach picking up girls like you would any other online dating website.
2.) The Cold Facebook Pickup
This is the hardest way to pick up girls online. Trying to pick up a girl on Facebook that you’ve never even met before is tough… in fact, even the most experienced pick up artists can’t do this on a regular basis.
First, you’ve got to make sure that you set up your profile perfectly. That means having a slew of attractive pictures that are visible to everyone. Make yourself look like you have a ton of friends and that you’re fun. Then, I give you the green light to start messaging girls.
This is going to be a number game. There are girls that just aren’t receptive to being picked up at all… why? Because they have boyfriends. They hate the idea of online dating. They hate the idea of a dude messaging them whom they’ve never met.
Sometimes, these girls are simply privacy nuts.
So you’ve got to accept that, for the most part, these girls are going to ignore you. That’s fine. You win some, you lose some, right?
The trick is to message these girls with a purpose. You can’t simply just message a girl saying, “Hey, what’s up?” – This will work maybe 1 in a 100 times. You’ve got to say something that will intrigue her, and that will compel her to reply. At the same time, you also have to have a non-threatening cue. Meaning, you need to make it apparent, right off the bat, that you aren’t trying to pick her up.
You can do this through a number of ways, but the best way to do this is pretend you know her. Say something like…
“Hey, were at Maggie’s birthday party last week? I think I may have accidentally spilled a bit of beer on your dress!”
Or maybe something like…
“Hey, are you Stephanie’s friend? Thanks are you still interested in that date? Haha!”
These will surely get a conversation going, at the very least.
Once you open, you have to continue being intriguing but not sexual. Remember, you aren’t picking her up in that sense, you want to open and get her phone number ASAP so you can start talking on the phone.
For the very best way to get the conversation going, you’ve got to watch my video on how to pick up chicks on Facebook (or any online dating website for that matter). Check it out below: